I would NEVER tell!

Ok so there's this age-old concept that goes like this:

I would NEVER tell so&so what I really did last night . . . BECAUSE IT WOULD HURT THEM,  And I would NEVER DO ANYTHING TO HURT THEM.  

[ really long period of head shaking speechlessness and bewilderment...
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What you would 'never do' is look at yourself in the mirror.  This scenario isn't about hurting the other person, its about YOU.  You can't face who you are, what you really want...  You have no faith in the other person's ability to love you.  And hey!  Maybe they don't!  But don't blame them for what you can't face.
Its called a LIE.  And you're living it.
You've ALREADY hurt that other person!  And you know it!  So you really drag them thru the sewer by lying about it.  Nothing says "I care" more than a LIE.

No..... No its YOU you care about.  You don't want to take responsibility for your decisions or your actions.  So you hide.... and you live a lie....  And you believe a lie - that you've done good by sparing the other persons feelings of hurt when you tell them the truth.

LOSER.

JMO