Can you be strong enough to stay with someone and allow them to evolve, without being towed under by their lower densities that they have not yet moved thru?
This is NOT for everyone!
Everyone is NOT equipped to do things like this!
Just because some may be, does not mean that everyone is.
This is a place that you grow and evolve into, and if it is NOT a place you have mastered yet, then it can be very dangerous, for everyone involved.
There is a very specific tensility required to withstand staying near someone who is going thru the nuclear transitions of evolution. It involves not only "staying near" but also being of service to their process.
Should I stay or should I go.....?
That is the question people have when a "difficult" person is in their lives.
A lot of people stay, thinking that they're strong and being of good service. When in actuality they are being abused and are in denial because of personal fear and emotional attachments. This is the person that is NOT ready to do this work. It does not help anyone involved toward a better path to evolution. Of course it can be learned from, but it is NOT the most efficient way. And it may take many lifetimes to cycle out of poor choices because of all the fractals and spirals one creates when choosing poorly.
A growing point - a point you suddenly recognize as an opportunity to choose differently and "level up" - is when you can begin to feel the difference between "a person in transition", and "a person in a karmic spiral'.
A person in a karmic spiral cannot be helped in that stage. They must spin out. Crash. Burn. Rise to fight another day. This can take on many forms and should not be methodized! It is a personal experience. The End. But not knowing when to let go or move away from this person will cause much destruction to your own path, unnecessarily!
There is an evolutionary process going on in every relationship. We all mirror and refine one another. This is life. But there come points in relationships where evaluation in necessary. These moments become obvious when stress or tensions reveal themselves via trigger points. These "faultlines" are present in every relationship. They are not to be avoided or feared but understood and navigated wisely. This is growth. Evolution.
This is NOT for everyone!
Everyone is NOT equipped to do things like this!
Just because some may be, does not mean that everyone is.
This is a place that you grow and evolve into, and if it is NOT a place you have mastered yet, then it can be very dangerous, for everyone involved.
There is a very specific tensility required to withstand staying near someone who is going thru the nuclear transitions of evolution. It involves not only "staying near" but also being of service to their process.
Should I stay or should I go.....?
That is the question people have when a "difficult" person is in their lives.
A lot of people stay, thinking that they're strong and being of good service. When in actuality they are being abused and are in denial because of personal fear and emotional attachments. This is the person that is NOT ready to do this work. It does not help anyone involved toward a better path to evolution. Of course it can be learned from, but it is NOT the most efficient way. And it may take many lifetimes to cycle out of poor choices because of all the fractals and spirals one creates when choosing poorly.
A growing point - a point you suddenly recognize as an opportunity to choose differently and "level up" - is when you can begin to feel the difference between "a person in transition", and "a person in a karmic spiral'.
A person in a karmic spiral cannot be helped in that stage. They must spin out. Crash. Burn. Rise to fight another day. This can take on many forms and should not be methodized! It is a personal experience. The End. But not knowing when to let go or move away from this person will cause much destruction to your own path, unnecessarily!
There is an evolutionary process going on in every relationship. We all mirror and refine one another. This is life. But there come points in relationships where evaluation in necessary. These moments become obvious when stress or tensions reveal themselves via trigger points. These "faultlines" are present in every relationship. They are not to be avoided or feared but understood and navigated wisely. This is growth. Evolution.
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