Learn To Use Your Dark Side

Use your personality!
No matter how bad it is!

Use that quirk, that flaw, that obsession, that weakness, that obnoxious part of you that makes you impossible to deal with, incorrigible, ANNOYING!!  Even to yourself...!
Did you ever stop to think that it's there for a reason??
We always hear we should use the "gifts" that we have been given.... but what about the annoying shit that we always struggle with and spend our whole lives trying to change (to no avail!), trying to get rid of and get away from!?? What about the things that cause us to not have any friends??
There is a reason you are the way you are.

What can you possibly DO with the worst part of you (in your opinion) that you just cannot get control of???
How can that be used  for  you instead of used to beat yourself up all your life???
How can you learn to USE  your dark side!?!?!?

It is a MASTER LEVEL course to take the worst parts of yourself, and USE THEM consciously and intelligently rather than letting them use you.

Are you MEAN???
Rather than trying so damn hard to "be nice" and "pleasant" and change who you currently are,
Explore that meanness!!!!
What happens if you stop fighting it?
(Please understand I am talking about being a CLASS "A" BITCH!  I am NOT talking about being violent or abusive!!!!!!!)
What can you do to "release" it so it harms NO ONE, but instead becomes empowering...?
Maybe you really are a freakin UFC champion..... ???

The KEY: Do it CONSCIOUSLY!!!!!!!
Its ALL about consiousness!

Maybe if you allowed yourself to explore those bitchy episodes you'd find a part of you that is dressed out in fear and insecurity, and that "bitch" is actually a leader who's afraid to act like one.

Do you know that you're an asshole?

Do you realize for yourself that you are way too fat?

Are you actually very aware of the fact that you lie so that you don't have to really deal with things?
Do you not dress yourself well?

Can you see yourself treating people like shit - as you do it?

If the answer is YES to any of those questions, that means that you're AWARE!  And that is the first step.

If you are conscious of those little things as they're happening then you have the POWER to slow time!!!
Observe...
And then CHOOSE!!!

Explore that "flaw" in real time!  See who you really are.  See what you're made of and what you're capable of.  Watch it as it happens!  Feel it!  Change it, direct it, add to it, stop it altogether...!  It's your choice.

Once you "get in there" and really experience these bad habits or destructive behaviors, then there's no more fear, no more guessing, no more feeling powerless....  You were THERE!  That's called experience, or as some like to call it - life!  You were the all powerful being who got to choose how that scenario played out.  You owned it!!!  

And now you've actually earned the right to say, I am who I am, and NO ONE controls my life but ME.

Embrace your dark side.  Stop running from it.

NOTE that if you think or feel an overwhelming urge to HARM yourself or others  S T O P ! ! ! 
This is NOT OK and is a sign that you need to reach out for some help.  It is never ok to harm others while experimenting with life.  

The point is to discover better things within yourself and realize that you CAN be the master of your own life. Stop being a helpless victim.  Stop hating your inner bitch and listen to her!

Love yourself.
"Yes, I am a bitch.  I am fully aware of that, and how I rub people the wrong way. But I am no longer afraid to ask myself 'Why?', and to become the BEST bitch I can be! "